Quote: "I want to give light but not like the candle. I don't want to lose myself in the process... Generosity and self-preservation should be allowed together." Helping people around you is no problem. Everybody needs help, but don't be like the candle you're going to be melting in. It's much more painful to lose yourself than to lose a person there for you. You're going to question your worth and feel abused. For that you will begin to forget how important you are. The person you gave your all will receive the love and care he / she wants, but he / she doesn't deserve. What's wrong with you? The person who gave his all that doesn't get the same amount of attention and shared with others things he / she had. I would say that many people do that in this century, being such a pest and adding too much negative to the life of someone. We are taught to support others in need as a family culture, and with that, I strive to help as much as I c...
